As many of you know, I’m passionate about young adult ministry. I love what I get to do every week when it comes to engaging this emerging generation with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. As I’ve also mentioned, young adult ministry is difficult and no one has written an all encompassing manual on how to develop this specific kind of ministry. To tell you the truth, I would be skeptical of such a “manual”, but there is value in more research and more study being put toward this group of people. In the coming weeks I hope to set forth a manifesto of sorts dealing with my current perspective on young adult ministry. I am by no means an expert on this subject, but I am one of the few young adult pastors out there who is trying to reach not just college students, but rather a whole decade’s worth of people. It is with this meager experience and Christ-centered passion that I am branching out to help other churches think about young adult ministry in their specific contexts.
I’m currently consulting for a smaller main line church in my area that has acknowledged it’s continued loss of young people. I walked into a meeting with these brothers and sisters the other night and was handed that evenings agenda. What I saw in bold print on the top of the agenda told me I was in for a long meeting.
I saw the words Saturday Evening Contemporary Worship Service
To give you the cliff notes version, this group was considering the possibility of an alternative worship service for the purpose of bringing young people into the church. The thought was that if you had the service early enough on Saturday evening, the young adults would be able to go out after the service and enjoy “other things” with their friends.
I love the people at this church. I’ve personally witnessed how they have a heart for their local community and how they value serving one another. I’m also deeply moved that they want to reach out to young people. Many churches five times their size are not even thinking about this generation group, and yet this small faith community has a desire to be counter-cultural by reaching those who are not presently part of their body. I tell you this because I had to speak the truth in love to them.
I said to this committee, “I love that you want to offer young people an opportunity to worship in a way that speaks to them, but as things currently stand in this church no one with come to this alternative service.” I had effectively killed the room. A brief moment of silence was followed by a simple and yet profound question, “well then what do we do?”
The conversation continued, but I want to hear back from you readers.
Why do you think I came to the conclusion that young adults would not attend this alternative service?
And secondly, what might be a good starting place for this small church when it comes to young adult ministry? Remember, they have limited leadership and financial resources, but are warm and welcoming to all kinds of people.
I await your thoughts….